7 Tips for Creating Your Partner’s Sexual Fantasy
Are you looking to add a pinch of spice to your bedroom antics? A recent survey revealed that almost 60% of people feel their sexual needs are not being met. So how do you consider your partner’s sexual desires?
Talking about your sexual fantasies with your partner can be a sensitive subject. Many people feel embarrassed when it comes to talking about their sexual desires. Having an open discussion with your partner about sex can help you both fulfill your wildest sexual fantasies.
Want to learn more about how to take your sex life to the next level? Below are seven helpful tips to make your partner’s sexual fantasy come true.
1. Ask Questions
The beginning of any balanced conversation should start with questions. You can try asking your partner what they like before diving into sexual fantasy options. Start with easy questions such as ‘what is your favorite position?’
This way, you can warm up and get comfortable before you start exploring your sexual fantasies. You should also ask them if they like sex toys, they’re fun to use alone or together.
2. Slow Down
If you approach your partner with a whip and paddle they are bound to run for the exit. Everything is much better when you take your time and slow things down. Check out some tips on how to tease your partner.
When you are introducing a new sexual fantasy to your partner you should do it slowly. Tell them about a naughty dream that you had about them to see how they react.
3. Listen to Your Partner
You can fulfill your partner’s wildest sexual fantasy but only if you listen to their desires. Show them that you respect them by listening and taking note of their specific requests. This will help you build trust between each other which will lead to more intimate moments.
4. Dress for the Occasion
What does your partner like you to wear? What do they like wearing? Being comfortable and feeling confident are top on the list of requirements for amazing sex.
Do you need a special costume to play out their sexual fantasy? Find out what it is that they like and surprise them with the perfect outfit or lingerie.
5. Be Spontaneous
Planning things too much can kill off any fire and passion you may have for each other. Let things happen naturally and go with the flow. You will both enjoy yourselves much more when you are free to play around and have fun.
6. Set Boundaries
There must be mutual respect when discussing intimacy ideas and sexual desires. These are deeply personal (and sometimes embarrassing) thoughts and feelings. Create a safe space where you can both share your naughty thoughts without fear of judgment.
If you are thinking of engaging in BDSM of rough play, make sure you work out a safe word and discuss your limitations before you begin.
7. Have Fun
The most important part of making your partner’s dreams come true is to have fun! You should never feel uncomfortable or embarrassed to share your innermost desires with your partner. Find a balance where you are both comfortable and can laugh if necessary.
Turn Your Sexual Fantasy into Reality
Are you ready to start creating your partner’s ultimate sexual fantasy? Opening up about your sexual desires can be difficult without the right steps in place. By following our tips, you can create a non-judgmental space where you can explore your most intimate desires with your partner.
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